Happy Holidays!

The year is winding down and the holidays are almost upon us!  Not going to lie … this is easily my all time FAVOURITE time of the year!  What’s not to love … warm weather, time to relax, quality time with family and friends, barbecues, beach, pool … I could go on!

I love soaking up the Christmas spirit and decorating the house ready for Christmas.  I love seeing the lights twinkling and the kids smiling!  And seriously, who doesn’t love a daggy Christmas movie!  Elf is my all time favourite and we watch it without fail every Christmas Eve.

I’ve pretty much finished all my Christmas shopping … I like to be ready and organised for the kids so that I can take time to think about little gifts for my family and friends.

I know how hard it can be to decide on the perfect gift for some people but I figure those of you in my age group, and even those a little younger and older, then makeup and skin care products are a pretty good match!  There are so many girls who simply won’t spend on themselves so it’s a good way to get something they’d like but never actually buy themselves!  Did that even make sense???  I know what I’m trying to say, so I hope you do too!

Anyway, I’ve compiled a list of great buy make up and skin care that’s easily purchased online!

Husbands take note – we love to be spoiled!

Hope these suggestions help a little.  I know that I’d be happy receiving any of them!

With everything priced at under $65 I think there’s something for everyone!!!

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Girls Gift Guide

1. STILA – Double-Ended Blending Sponge – $17  : I have this and I love it!  Saves my hands being covered in foundation and leaves your skin looking so much smoother.

2. SMASHBOX – Studio Skin Face Shaping Foundation Stick – $61 : I absolutely love this stick.  The foundation end is perfection under your eyes and around your nose, while the contour end adds a little more definition; particularly to those of us in our 40’s who lack the shape we once had!  Combined with the Stila blending sponge this is a perfect practical gift for the girl who likely won’t spend much on herself!

3. TOO FACED – The Sweet Smell of Christmas – long wear lipsticks – $36 : Not only do these little beauties plump your lips but they smell freaking AMAZING!! And such a bargain!

4. TOO FACED – Natural Eyes Neutral Eye Shadow Collection – $55 : This is perfect for those of us who like to look natural (let’s face it bright blue just doesn’t work in your 40’s … actually, not sure it ever works) and for only $55 it’s such a great buy!

5. SOAP & GLORY – Glammed Total – $35 : All I can say to this is OMG!!!  I want this gift pack for myself!  It’s got everything from body creams and washes to complexion-boosting masks! And oh so affordable!

6. SMASHBOX – Holidaze Primer Trio Kit – $32 : I know a lot of girls out there, particularly those of us who are mums, wouldn’t buy this for themselves.  That’s what makes it even better as a gift!  There’s no point giving someone something they’ll likely get themselves and at only $32 this primer set is fabulous value!

7. SOAP & GLORY – Hands Yule Love – $14 : Let’s not kid ourselves we use our hands more than anything else and yet they usually get the least amount of attention.  This gorgeous set of hand creams is not only luxurious but the smells are to die for!!! And seriously, under $15 WTF?

8. SOL DE JANEIRO – Bum Bum Carnaval Magic – $55 : Ass cream!!!!  OMG!!!! Who doesn’t want some sweet smelling butt cream … it can actually be used all over your body – legs, arms, belly!!! And this gorgeous gift set even comes with a mist that you can spray on your body, hair, lingerie … anywhere!  As well as a delicious smelling lip butter!  This set usually sells for $89 but is currently on sale for only $55.

9. CLINIQUE – Nightime TLC – $55 : I love these products!  Such a great gift pack and so good for your skin!  It includes the following: * Take The Day Off Makeup Remover for lids, lashes & lips * Take The Day Off Cleansing Balm for dry skin * Pep-Start Eye Cream * Pep-Start Pout Restoring Night Mask.

10. MECCA MAX – All or Nothing Full Face Palette – $55 : I don’t  know about anyone else but I am frightful to look at in the morning but with this set you’re ready in under 10 minutes – easy!!! The palette is jam packed with everything required to help get your face from that God awful morning look to hot to trot ready to smash the day! There’s 20 colourful eyeshadows in a mix of metallics and mattes, 1 bronzer, 1 illuminator and 2 blushes, a lip gloss and an eyeliner. POW!!!  There’s even a mirror, so it’s perfect for travel.

All products can be found at MECCA.COM.AU

Don’t forget your free samples when you check out!

 

 

 

 

Online shopping … what’s your superpower?

Online shopping.pngI’m pretty sure everyone has a superpower … some just haven’t figured out what theirs is yet.  Mine … well, mine happens to be ONLINE SHOPPING!  Yep, I am an online shopping expert!  I can find bargains for pretty much everything.

I’m not really a fan of wandering aimlessly around the shops desperately hoping to find what I’m searching for.  Instead I’d much rather sit back in the comfort of a cozy onesie, drink in hand, scouring the internet for exactly what I’m after!  The list includes pretty much everything you could want … from home decor and clothing to holidays and every kind of gift you could think of!  Nothing is really off limits!

Fat mirrorTake today for example.  We’re in need of a flattering “skinny” mirror.  Who doesn’t need one of those, right?  I’m pretty sure if you’ve been keeping up with my blog you can guess why we really need one!  Seriously though, the full length mirror we currently have is sooooo un-flattering!  It just leaves me feeling depressed and miserable and like I may as well go and devour a crap-load of chocolate to wash away my misery. Anyway, I’ve Googled every type of full length mirror and they’re all sooo expensive … except for the “fat” ones and well, we already have one of those!

So I figured I’d try and find a bargain … and find a bargain I did.  Well, kind of!  It’s still expensive but it’s a fraction of the price I could have paid, and for exactly the same mirror.

So, here’s the mirror we decided on … The Winston Floor Mirror … and the price it started at was $1079 … WAY TOO MUCH!  I’d rather eat the corn out of my poo than pay that much for a mirror!

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Way too expensive to go for the first product you find.

Anyway, here’s how I got the best price possible …

1. Google the product.

Find the cheapest of the same product wherever you can.  I found the Winston Mirror for $549 at Temple & Webster (their direct website as well as their eBay page).

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Loads cheaper when you shop around … especially when you’re shopping online.

2. Compare postage.

Don’t be too quick to just jump onto the cheapest option you find … it may not be the cheapest in the long run.

eBay postage for the mirror was $83.36 … whilst the direct postage was a mere $64.95 in comparison.  Crazy, right?

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eBay postage was quite a bit more!  It saves to check the details.

 

 

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Same item from the same store … cheaper postage via their direct store though!

3. Search for promo codes.

Here’s the clincher … do a Google search for promo codes or discounts.  I usually find them!  You just have to be patient as many will have expired … but there are still generally plenty on offer.  Sometimes you may even snag a free shipping code or a 5%, 10%, 15% or even 20% off code.  Today I managed to find a $20 off code, which, whilst not a lot, still adds up!

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Always search for promo codes!  They’re usually out there!

The BEST clothing stores to nab great deals, I find, tend to be the American department stores!  I’ll leave that info for another blog though as I have so many great ones to share!  I’ve seriously just found some amazing bargains that I’ll share soon!  Can’t wait for them to arrive.  One major positive … you’re unlikely to be caught wearing the same outfit as anyone else … and let’s face it, that’s a genuine fear!

Happy shopping!

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It’s all about priorities!

Ever been jealous of that friend who always seems to be travelling … you know, the one out seeing the world while you’re stuck at home with the kids!  Yep, me too!  That’s why I decided to be that friend … the one out travelling … the one seeing the world!  And here’s how you can do it too!

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Matt, Ben & I in 2011 on the Sky Bridge of the Petronas Twin Towers in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

Having read the title of this post you should already have the gist of what this blog is about … but I’ll assume you’re not that bright … especially if you’re the one living vicariously through everyone else’s travels!!!

Seriously though, it’s true!  It’s all about priorities!  If you want to see the world, and I mean not just through your friend’s Facebook and Instagram posts, then you have to prioritise.

I’m not going to pretend it’ll be easy … it likely won’t be … unless you’re already loaded … in which case I’m wondering if you’re just a dumb ass / tight ass with lots of money!?!

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Fujairah Fort in the United Arab Emirates in 2016.

Anyway, I truly believe that travelling the world is possible for everyone.  It’ll take hard work, good planning and some cutting back in areas … but more than anything it’ll take you prioritising what you want more.  If you’re not prepared to give up things in order to save up enough to travel then clearly travelling isn’t really a priority for you.

I’m being honest here … I’d give up pretty much anything to travel the world … except the kids … and sometimes I’d probably give them up too!  Just jokes … don’t tell them I said that!!!  For real though, I’d give up eating out / takeaway food, the movies, clothes shopping, Foxtel … the list goes on!  There’s plenty of ways you can save money here and there.

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Soaking up the sun in Hanauma Bay in Hawaii 2014

I’ll let you in on a little money saving technique we’ve adopted that really helps out too.  We NEVER … and I mean NEVER spend a $5 note.  We use coins and every other note but NEVER a $5.  (Notice how I’ve made NEVER be bold every time I’ve written it … that’s how important it is to us!) If I fancy a hot chocolate and it’s going to cost $4.50 I’ll pay with a $10, even if I have a $5.  And that’ll usually score me an additional $5 in change too.  POW!!!

And if I only have $5 notes I won’t buy anything!  My priority is to save $5 notes.

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Holiday spending money right here!  POW!!!

And our reason for saving all these $5 notes … they’re our holiday spending money!!!  Without exaggeration we’ve not spent a $5 in close to 2 years!  And boy, oh boy, does it add up FAST!

You want to be the one your friends are envious of?  Then start by prioritising what you want most.

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Matt and Ben living it up Samoa style in 2012.

Do you really want that new dress / jacket / top / jeans?  Or would you prefer the holiday?  If it’s the holiday then put aside the money you were going to spend on the clothes and put it in the container with all the $5 notes you’ve surreptitiously collected!

Actually say NO to your kids when they want something!  Explain to them that if they want the holiday then they’ll also have to contribute … and by contribute I don’t mean financially!  They can learn to forgo things too.

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Family trip to Thailand in 2015.

We’re currently planning our next family adventure and we’re hoping for Africa.

Yep, AFRICA!!!  It sure as hell ain’t going to be cheap! The kids want it to happen soooo much though that they’ve actually asked us to stop paying them pocket money because they want to help make it easier for us to save!  Talk about proud momma moment!

Basically, I guess what I’m saying is that you don’t have to have a lot of money to travel.  I’m not going to lie … Yeah, it helps … it helps a lot … but it’s all about prioritising.

Best way to start … get saving those $5 and start small.  Choose somewhere close to home!

And holla if you’d like some help … that’s what friends are for … right!

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The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me on my new blogging adventure.

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I’m looking forward to sharing my journey through life with anyone remotely interested.  I guess I’ve decided that now, at my age, I have enough life experience to share some snippets of my life.

I’m looking forward to taking this authentic journey with you … through all the fabulous moments, and even the not so fabulous moments.

Remember, there is always joy to be found in each and every day … never forget to seek out the small wonders of life and try not to get too caught up in work and money!

I’m just a full time mum / step mum and I’d  like to share a little of the world from my perspective.  I have a complete joy and gratitude for life, and hope to spread a little love and inspiration.

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You should never regret anything in life.  If it’s good, it’s wonderful.  If it’s bad, it’s experience.

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